Surviving the 1950s Patriarchy

“Like a Mid-West Von Trapp family on steroids.”

Christine Lahti

Christine Lahti’s play charts the story of herself and members of her family alongside the development of the women’s movement over her lifetime.  She is a remarkable actress and adept at conveying different characters with just a change of voice and body movement. 

We start with a childhood memory of her mother and father and learn about domestic violence and male attitudes to women.  Throughout her lifetime, Christine parallels the concerns of women with her experiences and those of her mother, sisters and female friends.

Christine Lahti (Photo: Mark Senior)

We start in Birmingham, Michigan with a family photograph of Lahti’s patriarch ruled family, father, smiling mother and six children, four of them girls.  Straight away we can see the eldest brother aping his father’s suit, tie and haircut.  There are disturbing ways in which Lahti relates as to how her mother was treated by her father and she voices both her father and mother with skill. She remembers her father’s leather belt used for punishment, waking in the night to hear her mother sobbing, and her mother being thrown out of the car for being “bad”.  She remembers her father denying her money for essentials. The title The Smile of Her  describes how much is hidden by her mother’s radiant smile. Her father when asked how he is, always replies an all concealing, “Never felt better in my life.”

Christine Lahti and Jesamine-Bleu Gibbs (Phoyo: Mark Senior)

Acting alongside Lahti on the night I saw was Isabelle Ford as Christine’s younger self which gives the opportunity for Lahti to reflect and look back on her childhood with an extra cast member.  At university a house mate is raped.  She goes to a women’s liberation meeting and says, “I’d never seen so many non-smiling faces in my life.”  She is inspired by Long Day’s Journey into Night to become an actor and then faces a sexually abusive audition. One of her sisters faces a mental health breakdown.  All these issues are illustrated by Lahti with understandable emotion and sometimes anger. She is a vivid storyteller over seven life changing decades.

The set is a bright white plastic covered sofa as in her mother’s white carpeted pristine house with Lahti’s dress the bright red splash of colour against the black and white set.  The lighting is bright and on the back wall are projected stills of the family and the era. Mêlisa Annis directs so that the ninety minutes is full of thoughtful drama beautifully told.  

Christine Lahti (Photo: Mark Senior)
Christine Lahti (Photo: Mark Senior)

Production Notes

The Smile of Her

Written and Performed by Christine Lahti

Directed by Mêlisa Annis

Cast

Starring:

Christine Lahti

Isabelle Ford

Jesamine-Bleu-Bleu Gibbs

Creatives

Director: Mêlisa Annis

Designer: Sarah Beaton

Lighting Designer: Matt Haskins

Video Projection: Matt Powell

Sound Director:  David Gregory

Information

Running Time: One hour 30 minutes without an interval

Booking to 29th August 2023

Theatre: 

heatre: 

Marylebone Theatre

 
 

Website:

marylebonetheatre.com

Tube: Baker Street

Reviewed by

Lizzie Loveridge

at the

Marylebone Theatre

on 16th July 2026