Inspirational Friendship
Sylvie “Didn’t you get my letter?”
Andrée “I thought you had accidentally sent me your homework!”

It is interesting is it not that a woman who represents feminism allowed her male partner to censor her writing? Inseparable, the novel by Simone de Beauvoir wasn’t published until 34 years after her death because her lover Jean-Paul Sartre didn’t encourage her. Instead some of the material went into her book, Memoirs of a Dutiful Daughter.
Now adapted as a play by Grace Joy Howarth, The Inseparables tells about Simone de Beauvoir’s friendship with a girl of the same age that she met at a convent in Paris aged 9. The author’s character is named Sylvie (Ayesha Ostler) and her friend, really Elisabeth or Zaza Lacoin, in the novel is called Andrée (Lara Manela). Andrée was very talented, intelligent, used brilliant metaphors, played the piano and the violin but had little time for herself because she had to help out with younger siblings and household duties.
Andrée meets Sylvie when Andrée missed school when her thigh was badly burnt when her skirt caught fire over an open fire. Andrée wants to borrow Sylvie’s exercise books to catch up on the schooling she has missed. Because of the attachment between the two as girls there has been much speculation as to whether their affection for each other was a Lesbian affair. But we follow Andrée falling in love with two men so that the relationship between the girls might have been what we call a romantic crush. Also despite writing in depth about her early life Simone de Beauvoir never detailed any sexual encounter with Zaza, just a remarkable friendship.

Whereas Andrée stays with Catholicism, Sylvie becomes an atheist. Sylvie is also more interested in art and culture than she is in religion. We never meet Sylvie’s parents but Andrée’s mother (Caroline Trowbridge) is ever present disallowing what Andrée would like to do.
Set in the 1920s as the girls reach maturity we hear Andrée’s mother say the only future for a girl is marriage or the convent. There is no single option. Thank Goodness Simone de Beauvoir didn’t think like that!
But we hear that Andrée’s mother had been forced to marry a stranger.
There is good natural conversation between the two as they grow up, keeping their friendship alive during time apart away from Paris. They both go to university at the Sorbonne. As Sylvie, Ayesha Ostler is often watching or recounting what Andrée has been up to, like tasting cherries “en alcool” or kissing Bernard who is half Jewish (Alexandre Costet-Barmada). Lara Manela will dance and mime playing her violin as the more animated of the two. They are nicely directed by Anastasia Bunce in the Finborough’s intimate space. There is a very funny scene when Pascal dances with Sylvie who had no sense of rhythm followed by the very competent Andrée.
Having found time for herself as a child because of the burns, Andrée again engineers an injury to stop her being sent away. I won’t spoil the ending but it is a loss. I found myself wanting to know about Sylvie/Simone’s friendship with Jean-Paul Sartre at the Sorbonne but perhaps that is matter for another play?

Production Notes
The Inseparables
Written by Grace Joy Howarth
After the novel by Simone de Beauvoir
Translated by Lauren Elkin
Directed by Anastasia Bunce
Cast
Starring:
Ayesha Ostler
Lara Manela
Caroline Trowbridge
Alexandre Costet- Barmada
Creatives
Director: Anastasia Bunce
Designer: Hazel Poole Zane
Movement Design: Daniela Poch
Lighting Designer: Abraham Walkling-Lea
Sound Designer: Flick Isaac-Chilton
Video Director: Jessica Brauner
Information
Running Time: Two hours including an interval
Booking to 10th May 2025
Theatre:
Finborough Theatre
118 Finborough Road
Earls Court
London
SW10 9ED
Box Office: www.finboroughtheatre.co.uk
Reviewed by Lizzie Loveridge
at the Finborough
on 17th April 2025